You’ve already done a lot of work on yourself. And you’re clear about what matters to you in a primary partnership. But you’re starting to notice how hard it is to meet enough people who want relational openness AND are available to build a life with you.
You don’t want just anyone. You're looking for YOUR person, someone who really understands you and wants to co-create a life with intention.
So far you’ve met great people and had real connections. You’ve dated, explored, learned, loved, and enjoyed.
BUT when it comes to long-term alignment, something has always been missing.
Some of them already had primary partners or established families. Others didn’t want kids. And others are solo poly or in an exploratory phase without the desire for deep commitment and shared future building.
Meanwhile, you’re ready to have children soon. Ready to start living your life with your primary partner.
Having those adventures and beautiful mundane moments before you start your family. From NRE to wholesome heartwarming depth.
You’ve probably tried many of the usual pathways...
Dating apps, most of which proved to be an enormous waste of energy and never really led to anything meaningful. A hit or miss.
Asking your friends to set you up with people they think would be a good fit.
Creating a "date me" doc.
And doing embodiment or relational work to stay aligned, regulated, and open to real connection.
And still, most of the places you’ve been meeting people require you to play a numbers game, but when you’re looking for resonance and readiness of this caliber, dating is really a magnetism game.
What if there was a way to be matched directly with people who align perfectly with your vision, WITHOUT having to weed through a sea of chance encounters (or spend hours swiping just to be met with disappointment)?
That’s why I started Intuitive Intimacy
It’s the only matchmaking service designed specifically for people like you — poly or monogam(ish) individuals who want a primary partner and family
This ISN’T a dating app. Or a directory where random uninvested people can join and you’re expected to filter through them to find a match.
At Intuitive Intimacy, everyone is personally interviewed. People aren’t just interested, they’re invested. They are here because they are serious about their vision.
This isn’t traditional matchmaking, where you pay $5,000-$20,000+ for a handful of introductions from a pool of matches who are probably monogamous and can join for free, and thus have no skin in the game.
Intuitive Intimacy is building a growing, aligned network of high-caliber people who want primary partnership within non-traditional relationship styles so you don't have to keep relying on chemistry, chance, or endless dating.
Here’s how it works :
Right now, you make a ONE TIME investment of $600 and receive a transformational 90-minute relational clarity interview, plus LIFETIME ACCESS to curated introductions as the network grows.
There are no monthly fees.
There’s no expiration.
And there’s no cap on the number of introductions you can receive.
Every person in the network has been personally interviewed using my 39-point compatibility matrix that I developed through years of working as a sex and intimacy coach.
I match you based on values, parenting desires, attachment patterns, erotic wiring, degree of openness, lifestyle, geography, and long-term partnership vision.
This is intentional matchmaking for people who want deep devotion, authenticity, and integrity.
What Becomes Possible For You When You Join
You find someone who wants the same things in life as you; to have a family with a primary partner
You get clear on what you really desire in a primary partnership, including your real deal breakers and non-negotiables
You stop investing in misaligned partnerships and start connecting with people who are on the same timeline and life stage as you
You meet people who can hold emotional depth, show up for intentional relating, and integrate into your life and community without being threatened by it
You experience the relief of being matched by a human who actually understands ENM dynamics rather than an algorithm or by randomly swiping
You join a relational ecosystem of high-quality, vetted people who have also done inner work so the problem of matching with people who you feel the need to coach goes away
You don’t have to wonder whether someone is truly available for primary partnership because the vetting process we put everyone through weeds out the unserious and unavailable people.
The work here isn’t about removing the mystery of the unfolding of connections. It’s about radically improving the conditions under which real partnership can emerge.
Intuitive Intimacy Matchmaking is PERFECT for you if you…
Want an anchor partner within some level of open-relating (from monogam(ish) to non-hierarchical polyamory)
Have done personal development and inner work around relationships, attachment, and emotional intelligence
Are looking for someone who can meet you where you are emotionally, erotically, and in shared partnership
Value authenticity in a primary partnership and are willing to share yourself fully with someone
Live anywhere (most of our members are in the Bay Area, Austin, and Boulder/Denver)
Are ready to invest in being matched with your perfect fit primary partner
Want to be part of an intentional community of like-minded people building alternative families (with or without children)
Intuitive Intimacy is NOT for people who…
Already have a primary partner and are looking for secondary connections
Identify as solo poly or don't want a primary partnership
Haven’t done any personal development work on yourself (therapy, coaching, healing, embodiment work, etc.) and aren’t interested in changing that
Are in your exploratory phase and not ready for commitment
Can't handle a little challenge or constructive feedback
Want instant results without being willing to invest time and energy into the process
When you join Intuitive Intimacy, you get…
A TRANSFORMATIONAL 90-MINUTE RELATIONAL CLARITY INTERVIEW
This is not a standard intake call. It's a powerful session that helps you get clearer on your relational patterns, desires, and non-negotiables than you've ever been. Drawing on my years of working with couples and individuals as an intimacy coach, I use my 39-point compatibility matrix to help you pinpoint what you actually want in a primary partnership beyond inherited ideas or old patterns.
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LIFETIME ACCESS TO CURATED MATCHMAKING
You pay once and that’s it, you're in for life! As the network grows, you'll receive ongoing personalized introductions whenever someone joins who aligns with your values and vision. No monthly fees. No limited number of matches. No pressure to "find your person" on a deadline. The pacing is relational, not transactional.
HAND-SELECTED MATCHES BASED ON DEEP COMPATIBILITY
Matching here is human-led, not algorithmic.
I personally match you based on:
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Degree of openness desired (mono-poly spectrum)
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Parenting desires and timeline
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Lifestyle and geography
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Cultural context, physical activity, political views
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Attachment, intimacy values, and erotic wiring
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Long-term partnership goals
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So much more!
Every introduction comes with context—I tell you why I think you'd be a good match, who you both are, and where you might have friction (but why I think you can handle it).
THOUGHTFUL, CONFIDENTIAL INTRODUCTIONS
Your profile is only shared when there's mutual interest. I take into account your first-date preferences (do you want to dance together and feel into chemistry, or sit at dinner and talk?). If you're in the same city, I recommend a short meet-and-greet. If not, a 30-minute Zoom call is a great way to feel each other out.
FOUNDING MEMBERS PERKS
As a founding member, you lock in this one-time rate forever. When the program eventually shifts to a subscription model, you'll retain lifetime access. You'll also get early access and perks at future community events, gatherings, and offerings—including the quarterly matchmaking events in the San Francisco Bay Area, Boulder/Denver, and Austin.
The Matchmaking Process
Step 1: You Become a Member
Make a one-time investment of $600 as a founding member for lifetime access
Step 2: We Have Your 90-Minute Interview
This is a deep, relational interview. Most people leave with a level of clarity that shifts how they date entirely.
Step 3: You Join the Network
Your profile goes into my curated matchmaking pool. You're now connected to a growing ecosystem of people oriented toward similar partnership and family visions.
Step 4: I Send You Matches
Whenever someone new joins who aligns with you, I'll reach out with a personalized introduction. You decide if you want to connect.
Step 5: You Explore
I facilitate the introduction and give you both context about why I think you'd be great together. From there, it's up to you to see if there's chemistry and connection.
Step 6: You Meet Someone You Want to Build a Life With (and Hopefully Never Need Matchmaking Again)
The goal is simple: You meet your primary partner, build your family, and live your dream life. And if a relationship ends or your life changes, you remain part of the network. Life sometimes evolves. You have lifetime access.
Frequently Asked Questions (FAQs)
Who's behind this?
Intuitive Intimacy was founded by Miami Litton-Palmer, intimacy coach, community weaver, and now matchmaker. She's worked with hundreds of people around love, sex, and relationship clarity, and she brings all of that experience to matchmaking.
Her background isn't algorithms and this isn't an app. She listens deeply, asks the questions that reveal what really matters, and holds space for your growth along the way.
How it works
✨ Discovery Call (20 minutes, free)
A first conversation with Miami to get a feel for each other and confirm this is the right fit. She'll ask what you're looking for in a partner, where your relationships stand right now, and what matters most to you.
✨ Onboarding Interview (90 minutes)
Together you'll map out your values, desires, deal-breakers, and lifestyle using our 39-point compatibility framework.
✨ Curation and Matching
You're added to a pool of hand-selected members. We only make an introduction when we see genuine alignment or intuition, never just to "fill numbers."
✨ Unlimited Introductions
You'll receive unlimited introductions. Every introduction is thoughtful and intentional.
✨ Post-Date Debriefs
Anytime you're ready, we debrief together, clarifying what worked, what didn't, and refining your criteria going forward. Usually over text or voice note, sometimes on a call.
✨ Lifetime Membership
Once you're in, you're in. You stay in the network indefinitely, with the opportunity for future introductions as new members join.
How much does it cost?
Right now, the early-circle rate is $600, a one-time fee. (Price increasing September 1st.) Boutique matchmaking typically costs thousands of dollars, often $10k to $50k, but we want early members to benefit from accessible pricing while the pool grows. The plan is to transition to a subscription model by the end of 2026, but if you join now you keep lifetime membership in the network.
How is this different from other matchmaking services?
Traditional matchmaking services typically operate on a high-ticket, time-limited model. Clients pay $5,000 to $20,000+ for a fixed number of introductions over a set period of time. Those matches are often drawn from a large database where many people are not actively participating, not deeply interviewed, and not equally invested in the process.
Intuitive Intimacy works differently. Every person is personally interviewed, and no one is treated as a passive profile waiting to be selected only if they match with a high-ticket client. Right now, you pay once and get lifetime access.
And most importantly, no other matchmaking service is designed for open-hearted people who want primary partnership.
What's your refund policy?
Because this includes a 90-minute alignment interview and lifetime access to an exclusive network, there are no refunds after your interview is complete.
How big is the matchmaking pool right now?
As of June 2026, the network is around 65 members and growing at a rate of 2 to 3 people per week. This is a founding member offer, so you're getting in early at an unbeatable rate in the matchmaking world. As the pool grows, you'll have access to more and more potential matches. The early bird rate won't last forever.
What kind of people are in the pool?
Many members come from dance and embodiment backgrounds, tantra and temple communities, tech and rationalist spaces, and spiritual or self-growth backgrounds. Many are simply poly and ENM folks from wider networks. The common thread: people who are values-aligned, intentional, and serious about finding love, partnership, and family (whether that includes children or not).
This project was originally only for people who wanted children. In March of 2026, we expanded to include folks who desire to be child-free, are done having children, or are on the fence.
A few numbers, as of August 2026:
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Around 85 people in the network, with 2 to 4 joining each week.
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Age range 25 to 83 (!), average age 41.4.
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Under 40: 60%. Ages 40 to 54: 26%. Ages 55+: 15%. (Definitely skewed by our original family-oriented cohort.)
Kids:
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Around 66% of people in the network want biological kids
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Soft yes to kids: 9%
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Do not want (or are done having) bio kids: 26%
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Open to a parter that already has kids: 53%
Gender & Regional Split:
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Gender: 53% men/AMAB, 47% women/AFAB.
Regional split (some people list multiple bases, so the sum is greater than 100%):
Bay Area/NorCal 33% | Colorado Front Range 31% | Austin 18% | SoCal 8% | New England 8% | Pacific Northwest 6% | International 6% | Other 20%
Gender split within regions:
Bay Area 60% men / 40% women | Colorado 53% men / 47% women | Austin 44% men / 56% women
Relocation:
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People happy to relocate: 43%
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People who do not want to relocate: 48%
How many introductions will I get, and how long will it take?
While the network is growing, the offer is that you stay in the pool indefinitely, which means you're eligible for unlimited introductions whenever new members join who are a fit for you. Most matchmakers offer head-hunting style packages, something like 5 matches over 6 months for many thousands of dollars. As a founding member of Intuitive Intimacy, there is never any pressure to make a particular match work, because there's no limit on the introductions you can receive.
As for timing, it depends. Because we only make introductions when we see genuine alignment, there isn't a fixed timeline. It also depends on how specific your desires are, your location, your availability, and honestly, timing and chemistry. Some members receive their first introduction quickly, others wait longer depending on their clarity and fit within the pool. Think of this less like instant swiping and more like a curated search. The pace is slower, but the quality is much higher.
As of June 2026, the average wait for a first match in our core three areas (the San Francisco Bay Area, Boulder/Denver, CO, and Austin, TX) is 1 to 2 months. For people outside of these main areas who are willing to relocate, the average wait is currently around 3 months. For those outside our hubs and not open to relocating, it's longer.
Do you guarantee that I'll find a partner?
No ethical matchmaker can guarantee love. What we can promise is thoughtful curation, personalized attention, and lifetime inclusion in a growing pool of values-aligned members.
What if it doesn't work out with someone I'm matched with?
That's completely normal and expected. Not every match will be your person, but every match will teach you something. And remember, you have lifetime access. If a relationship doesn't work out, you can always come back and be matched again.
Do you have success stories yet?
Even though Intuitive Intimacy launched only this year, we already have testimonials from members who found the interview process alone to be incredibly valuable and eye-opening. Several members have gone on dates and reported feeling grateful for the thoughtful matching. As the network grows and people find their partners, more success stories will come.
What cities are you serving? Do I have to be in one of them?
Right now the main concentrations are the San Francisco Bay Area, Austin, TX, and Boulder/Denver, CO. But no, you don't have to be in one of those three.
While there are clusters of members in a few main cities, many people in this community are geo-flexible. They travel often, are open to relocating, or split time between multiple home bases. If you want a partner who loves to travel, is open to seasonal living, or is willing to explore relocation, this pool is designed for that kind of flexibility. If you're somewhere else entirely, you're welcome to join.
Is this like coaching? Or like a dating app?
Neither. There are coaching components, like helping you gain clarity, refining your vision after each date, and supporting your communication, but this isn't an official coaching program. Matchmaking is its own container: it's about introductions, reflection, and clarity, with coaching tools woven in but not the central product.
If you're interested in ongoing poly-informed coaching support, we'd be happy to recommend one of Miami's colleagues.
Do I have to want kids to join?
Nope. For the first 6 months, the focus was on family-oriented members so that early matches would be aligned.
As of early 2026, the pool is open to everyone who desires a primary partner, whether you have kids, want them, are open to a partner who does, know with certainty that children aren't part of your vision, or are open to how things unfold. All are welcome here.
I'm monogam(ish) but not fully polyamorous. Is this for me?
Yes. This is for anyone who doesn't fit into traditional monogamy. Whether you're poly, ENM, or monogam(ish) (maybe you like attending play parties together, for example), you're welcome here.
What if I'm trans or queer?
This service is inclusive of all gender identities and sexual orientations. You're absolutely welcome here.
Will there be events or a community aspect?
Yes. While the core of this service is curated matchmaking, we also want members to feel connected to a broader network. We're exploring ways to include community offerings, including IRL connection events.
As an early member, you'll likely receive access to some of these at no cost or at a steep discount. For example, events might be free if you bring a friend, or group participation could be included in your package. The exact shape of this is still evolving, but what's clear is that membership isn't just about matches. It's also about being part of a living, supportive network.
Can I help grow the network?
Absolutely. The fastest way for this to grow for everyone is for you to share it with your community. Post about your experience with the interview on your personal social media. Tell your poly friends who want families. Refer people you know would be a great fit.
TESTIMONIALS
“Miami’s intuition was spot on – she’s made for this work! I felt very seen and understood by her. She was extremely attuned to what I was looking for. I was initially resistant to going on the date she set me up on but then I got so much out of it. It showed me things I didn’t realize I’d love and helped me clarify the polarity I’m looking for in a partnership.”
Sarah, 29, Austin TX
About Miami
Miami Litton-Palmer is a matchmaker, relationship, sex, & intimacy coach, event facilitator, cat-momma, & life artist.
She works with individuals, couples, & polycules on embodiment, communication, coregulation, and presence. Her approach blends somatics, attachment awareness, and intuitive discernment, with a focus on clarity and long-term alignment.
She lives and works in community, and her approach is shaped by years inside conscious relationship spaces, embodiment work, and relational practice.
Blending tantric principles with intuitive work, she touches people’s hearts and transforms their lives.
Ready to find your primary partner and start your family?
Here are your next steps:
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Click the button below to enroll as a founding member ($600 one-time investment)
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You'll receive a link to schedule your 90-minute relational clarity interview
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After your interview, you'll be added to the matchmaking network
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I'll reach out whenever I have a match for you (and you can reach out anytime with questions or updates)
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You'll receive lifetime access to introductions as the network grows—no monthly fees, no limits
This is your chance to lock in the founding member rate before the pool expands and the program shifts to a subscription model.
The people who've already joined are incredible—coaches, therapists, facilitators, tech professionals, bodyworkers, artists, and community leaders who have done the work and are ready for real partnership.
Are you ready to join them?
